In communicating with someone, sometimes we don’t realize that our bodies show our emotion or what we feel inside. we can observe it in the body gestures, face expression or other signs.
Some of the following are examples of human body language.
The signs of non-verbal
Whether consciously or not, people always send and receive non-verbally signals . When we get the first impression of someone who we had known, generally we know from his body language, not of words.
Learning to understand
When we would go to a place or any event, we should consider the people and atmosphere. So learn how to read body language and make sure you give the correct feeling that can be your savior. Some movements more real than others. For example, if the hand clutching his chest, can be meaning that soeone keep the distance to anybody else, may not like other people or uncomfortable being around him. However, it also can indicate coldness. The way some one’ handshake by strong and steady give the strong and friendly impression also acceptation than than handshake is weak and indifferent.
Each person who able to learn these signs and control the body language will get many opportunities to give a good impression.
There are some very talented people to manipulate their body language, so nearly everyone will be fooled about what he has in mind or a feeling person.
There are four guidelines in understanding the human body language. Four guidelines are able to remove the trap rapid interpretation and processing generalizations such other person who was memperlajari about body language, too.
The first guideline is harmony.
Signal for the signal to form a strong interpretation. Conflict between cues to provide a practical interpretation of the lack of credibility. This means that, between one signal with another signal refers to a conclusion. Thus concluded on the basis of a signal provides an opportunity we are stuck. Harmony was in existence can be connected externally with words. Speech as a support tothe appear gesture. Harmony between gesture and sign with the words is the key to obtain an accurate interpretation of the right.
Guidelines for the second accordance with the situation.
All gestures should be associated with the current situation. Suppose someone who sits at the bus station with his one foot on his other foot, arms crossed and chin withdrawn while the weather was heavy rain. Under these conditions, he probably does not mean defensive freezing. If only someone had showed the same gesture while we sit in front of him while trying to sell an idea or product it can be interpreted to mean that he did not like. Conformity between signals with the current situation is a key signal to obtain an accurate interpretation and appropriate.
The third guideline is to know clearly the other person's physical condition.
a man who has a cold handshake is often accused of being weak personality. In fact, he was quizzed after suffering arthritis in his hands so he did that when shaking hands to avoid pain. Or a woman who inadvertently makes a man blamed interpreted as she spoke with the man, as she blinked as dust or feel the dry eyes, so that the man interpreted that she was interested and flirtatious.
fourth guideline is to know clearly the status and power.
Status, power or prestige a person is inversely proportional to the number of gestures used. The speed of a few cues and how clear it seems too have a relation with age. As a child 5 years old to lie to his parents he will soon hand over his mouth after speaking. Signal was also carried out his mouth shut a teenager who was lying with his hand touched some variation of the mouth. Adults lie seen from the hand covering her mouth with the last variation and produce hand drawn gesture touched his nose. Gesture adults lie to them, is another sophisticated version of the gestures the children to lie.
The harmony between the signals, signal compatibility with the situation, physical clarity, and clarity of the status of power is four guidelines to understand the language of the human body.
(According to psychologist William James) there are four types of
body language in general implies your thoughts and feelings.
1. Open body language
Is posture toward the front (forward looking), the position of the body and face towards the opponent talk. This body language implies the readiness to give attention and warmth.
Generally, this body language reflects a positive response to the other person.
2. closed body language .
Posture pulled back, but not the other person back. Eg
look the other way when your opponent was speaking. This attitude reflects a sense of
embarrassed and bored. For the other person, this attitude is often interpreted in a manner
cool.
3. expansive body language .
Posture shown in the standby posture, such as standing up straight with your chin slightly
up. This attitude reflects a sense of pride and arrogance. Generally, this attitude has
by people who self-confidence is high. Unfortunately, the people like this usually less able to appreciate the other.
4. tense body language .
This is evident from the contract posture, as if drawn into the body.
For example face down, hands folded, and eyes do not dare to look. Attitude
This reflects a sense of disappointment, sadness, or frustration.
Some form of Body Language:
EYE CONTACT
Eye contact is one of the gateway to intimacy. Usually someone will always make eye contact if he feels comfortable or happy with his interlocutor. In relationships between men and women, usually women will look into his eyes that she liked, but most men will lose first in this action. Women will consider you as a man who is confident when the eye contact action is for quite some time and even better if she is defeated first, face down or otherwise transfer.
Similarly, when you have a conversation. Look at her eyes, not that glaring. If more than about 60% of the sexes at each other's eyes in a time conversation, it is possible she is more interested in you are than what you are talking about.
leaned TO YOU
Leaned over, tilted his head to one side, and spoke with a softer voice, according to experts this may indicate some interest.
TOUCH
Men want to touch and she wants to be touched. The touch between opposite sex will increase oxitocyn hormone. So that will add to the intimacy. What about new people we know? It was not our ethical casually touched her. So we can’t be so easily touching. Women also have pride. But there are parts that normal to the touch as the hands and arms.
When we meet her, do not just say hello course, shake her hand gently and slowly release.
We don’t have to touch in a long time, but better if we do it more often. Either pinched or gently nudged. Again and again it shows that we are more confident and not intimidated by her beauty.
MOVEMENT
Consider if she has cool talking with her friends. Excited movements seen freely. Unlike when he was with the opposite sex. Women will be changing the seat position if she feels attracted to you. As if to attract attention., Such as changing the sitting position, turn left and crossed her legs one in other.
SMILE
One indicator of body language is the strongest of our smile. A smile makes you look better, your smile can also be an indication of your health. There are some smile human’s smiling when communicating, whether it is a cynical smile, smile in delight, amusement and so on.
(Compiled from various sources.)
The signs of non-verbal
Whether consciously or not, people always send and receive non-verbally signals . When we get the first impression of someone who we had known, generally we know from his body language, not of words.
Learning to understand
When we would go to a place or any event, we should consider the people and atmosphere. So learn how to read body language and make sure you give the correct feeling that can be your savior. Some movements more real than others. For example, if the hand clutching his chest, can be meaning that soeone keep the distance to anybody else, may not like other people or uncomfortable being around him. However, it also can indicate coldness. The way some one’ handshake by strong and steady give the strong and friendly impression also acceptation than than handshake is weak and indifferent.
Each person who able to learn these signs and control the body language will get many opportunities to give a good impression.
There are some very talented people to manipulate their body language, so nearly everyone will be fooled about what he has in mind or a feeling person.
There are four guidelines in understanding the human body language. Four guidelines are able to remove the trap rapid interpretation and processing generalizations such other person who was memperlajari about body language, too.
The first guideline is harmony.
Signal for the signal to form a strong interpretation. Conflict between cues to provide a practical interpretation of the lack of credibility. This means that, between one signal with another signal refers to a conclusion. Thus concluded on the basis of a signal provides an opportunity we are stuck. Harmony was in existence can be connected externally with words. Speech as a support tothe appear gesture. Harmony between gesture and sign with the words is the key to obtain an accurate interpretation of the right.
Guidelines for the second accordance with the situation.
All gestures should be associated with the current situation. Suppose someone who sits at the bus station with his one foot on his other foot, arms crossed and chin withdrawn while the weather was heavy rain. Under these conditions, he probably does not mean defensive freezing. If only someone had showed the same gesture while we sit in front of him while trying to sell an idea or product it can be interpreted to mean that he did not like. Conformity between signals with the current situation is a key signal to obtain an accurate interpretation and appropriate.
The third guideline is to know clearly the other person's physical condition.
a man who has a cold handshake is often accused of being weak personality. In fact, he was quizzed after suffering arthritis in his hands so he did that when shaking hands to avoid pain. Or a woman who inadvertently makes a man blamed interpreted as she spoke with the man, as she blinked as dust or feel the dry eyes, so that the man interpreted that she was interested and flirtatious.
fourth guideline is to know clearly the status and power.
Status, power or prestige a person is inversely proportional to the number of gestures used. The speed of a few cues and how clear it seems too have a relation with age. As a child 5 years old to lie to his parents he will soon hand over his mouth after speaking. Signal was also carried out his mouth shut a teenager who was lying with his hand touched some variation of the mouth. Adults lie seen from the hand covering her mouth with the last variation and produce hand drawn gesture touched his nose. Gesture adults lie to them, is another sophisticated version of the gestures the children to lie.
The harmony between the signals, signal compatibility with the situation, physical clarity, and clarity of the status of power is four guidelines to understand the language of the human body.
(According to psychologist William James) there are four types of
body language in general implies your thoughts and feelings.
1. Open body language
Is posture toward the front (forward looking), the position of the body and face towards the opponent talk. This body language implies the readiness to give attention and warmth.
Generally, this body language reflects a positive response to the other person.
2. closed body language .
Posture pulled back, but not the other person back. Eg
look the other way when your opponent was speaking. This attitude reflects a sense of
embarrassed and bored. For the other person, this attitude is often interpreted in a manner
cool.
3. expansive body language .
Posture shown in the standby posture, such as standing up straight with your chin slightly
up. This attitude reflects a sense of pride and arrogance. Generally, this attitude has
by people who self-confidence is high. Unfortunately, the people like this usually less able to appreciate the other.
4. tense body language .
This is evident from the contract posture, as if drawn into the body.
For example face down, hands folded, and eyes do not dare to look. Attitude
This reflects a sense of disappointment, sadness, or frustration.
Some form of Body Language:
EYE CONTACT
Eye contact is one of the gateway to intimacy. Usually someone will always make eye contact if he feels comfortable or happy with his interlocutor. In relationships between men and women, usually women will look into his eyes that she liked, but most men will lose first in this action. Women will consider you as a man who is confident when the eye contact action is for quite some time and even better if she is defeated first, face down or otherwise transfer.
Similarly, when you have a conversation. Look at her eyes, not that glaring. If more than about 60% of the sexes at each other's eyes in a time conversation, it is possible she is more interested in you are than what you are talking about.
leaned TO YOU
Leaned over, tilted his head to one side, and spoke with a softer voice, according to experts this may indicate some interest.
TOUCH
Men want to touch and she wants to be touched. The touch between opposite sex will increase oxitocyn hormone. So that will add to the intimacy. What about new people we know? It was not our ethical casually touched her. So we can’t be so easily touching. Women also have pride. But there are parts that normal to the touch as the hands and arms.
When we meet her, do not just say hello course, shake her hand gently and slowly release.
We don’t have to touch in a long time, but better if we do it more often. Either pinched or gently nudged. Again and again it shows that we are more confident and not intimidated by her beauty.
MOVEMENT
Consider if she has cool talking with her friends. Excited movements seen freely. Unlike when he was with the opposite sex. Women will be changing the seat position if she feels attracted to you. As if to attract attention., Such as changing the sitting position, turn left and crossed her legs one in other.
SMILE
One indicator of body language is the strongest of our smile. A smile makes you look better, your smile can also be an indication of your health. There are some smile human’s smiling when communicating, whether it is a cynical smile, smile in delight, amusement and so on.
(Compiled from various sources.)
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